Excuses and Reliability in the Black Community: Why Accountability Matters for Our Businesses
- Aaliyah Monroe

- Sep 18
- 3 min read
In recent years there has been an ongoing conversation within the Black community about the state of our businesses, our institutions, and our image. At the center of that conversation is an uncomfortable truth. Too often, when problems arise in our businesses or community dealings, excuses take the place of responsibility. Rather than being seen as reliable, dependable, and consistent, we are sometimes viewed, even by ourselves, as excuse makers. This pattern does not uplift us. Instead, it undermines trust and feeds into harmful stereotypes that we should be actively fighting against.
The Excuse Culture and Its Consequences
Excuse making has become a shortcut to avoid accountability. If a business provides poor service, it is easy to say, “we are doing our best with what we have,” rather than addressing the root problem. If a product fails in quality, it is common to say, “we are a Black owned business, support us anyway,” instead of fixing the process. These responses are not solutions; they are deflections.
This habit is dangerous because it normalizes mediocrity and trains customers, our own community members, not to expect excellence from us. It reinforces stereotypes that Black businesses are less reliable than others, when in reality we have every ability to deliver excellence if we hold ourselves to higher standards. Excuses, in this sense, become a form of self sabotage.
Reliability is Branding
Quality and customer service are not just nice extras. They are the backbone of branding. A business that delivers reliably builds loyalty, credibility, and long term sustainability. A business that makes excuses builds frustration, distrust, and negative word of mouth.
When excuses dominate, the brand suffers. When accountability dominates, the brand grows. The difference is not about resources alone. It is about attitude, integrity, and the willingness to put customers first.
Why Excuses are Easy
Excuse making has become easy because it allows us to defer responsibility. It is simpler to blame lack of support, systemic challenges, or even the customer, than it is to look inward and admit shortcomings. While the realities of systemic inequality are undeniable, they cannot become shields for poor service, broken promises, or dishonesty in business practices.
If we consistently fall back on excuses, we risk building businesses that are fragile and unsustainable. Worse, we risk teaching the next generation that Black business means lowering the bar rather than raising it.
The Solutions We Can Take
To rise above excuse making, we need a culture shift in how we approach business and community responsibility.
Do not make promises you cannot keep. It is better to set realistic expectations than to overpromise and underdeliver.
Be honest about limitations. If you cannot provide a service or product at the level expected, be transparent. Customers respect honesty more than excuses.
Prioritize fixing problems, not covering them. When something goes wrong, focus on solutions instead of explanations. A resolved issue builds more loyalty than a thousand apologies.
See accountability as empowerment. Owning mistakes and correcting them shows strength, not weakness. It creates resilience in business and trust in leadership.
Focus on long term reputation, not short term dollars. Cutting corners for quick money may get you a sale today, but it will cost you trust tomorrow.
Rising Above
We have to decide as a community whether we want to be defined by excuses or by excellence. Excuses keep us trapped in the cycle of lowered expectations. Accountability and reliability break that cycle and prove to the world, and to ourselves, that we can build businesses and institutions that stand tall.
Black businesses deserve to thrive, not merely survive. That will only happen if we stop blaming others for our bad decision making and start setting a higher standard for ourselves. The world will not lower the bar for us, and neither should we. Our power lies in showing that we can meet and exceed expectations, not through excuses, but through excellence.
Excuses weaken us. Reliability strengthens us. Accountability liberates us. The choice is ours.




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